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Alpana Issar

Mother I am Eighteen now

Part 1

She has run away again,

This time leaving behind a message.

That says it all.

We are at fault

for all her inadequacies,

her unwellness,

and

for her failings.

For those multiple excuses

When she did not wish to attend school

or family gatherings.

It was always a stomach ache

or unbearable‘ brain pain’.

Migranes is what she called them.

Utter nonsense.

Back at school

Teachers complained.

Said she was lazy

And lied without guilt.


Part 2

Mother, I could do that

with such panache and ease.

I gave my lies names.

White lies

Grey ones

And there were the black ones

Which couldn't be penetrated into.

The starkness with which I gave explanations

about why I bunked classees

Or beat up the boys

made the authorities

take up stern stances

towards my lack of civility.


You see, my dear folks I learnt all these from you.

I was a child, all of five.

Naive and quite innocent.

Took your word for all that you made up.

Papa isn't well

So he fell.

Or the blue black marks

On your face and your arms

Were cause of your lack of grace and charm.

Wonder what harm I would I have come to

If you explained a bit with truth laced in.


As I grew

I learnt to hide and watch .

From behind billowing drapes

Or through the keyholes.

You always protected him.

Him , his lies and his drinking.

And he,

He did the same.

He had colourful lies for you.

You got fat, he said

Cause you ate too much.

Then suddenly one week later

You lost all that around your middle.

I had been expecting 'good news'.

A sibling to spend my time away from you both.

Someone i could teach the correct values

Something you failed miserably with me.

I knew you were pregnant

And I was already nine.


You see folks!

As children also we know

What's good and bad.

What seems like plausible truth and what are outright lies.

They teach that in school.

I have stories from Bible to prove that.

Speaking of God.

You guys fake that too.

Always late for church

And lies, freshly baked

Along with muffins bought

To take along

To seek a pardon.

I saw it all

And it got too much.


Once I took a time off to be at the chair.

Told my untruths

With confidence

Knowing only to well that the priest could hear.

He told me

In his God like voice

To speak with my parents

And work it put.


You looked aghast.

Shouted at me.

It's a small community

And I told tales

About my family.

Shame on me.

I wondered

Why you did not feel ashamed in the first place or second!!?

Father turned magenta

And then I knew

I had to get away

Or think of another lie

To tell at school.


I always thought up stories

Imagining

If you had been different.

Different as in regular parents,

Where moms and dads

are a team

To get the best for their

Children and lives together

Ahead.


I am 18 now

An adult .

This time I have left for good.

No, I haven't run away

Like I did before.

This time I will speak

And tell you more.

Mother the first time I ran

It was out of contempt

And I was just eight.

You were busy

Serving vodka and pretty full of it yourself.

Your cousin was constantly touching me and feeling me up.

Mother, my miss at school had taught me

Good touch and bad.

What Uncle Ronny was doing

Was very bad.

I had to get away.

I hid first but somehow

The creep always found me.

Laughing and saying peek a boo.

I looked for father

But he was busy with the maid.

I ran away.

It took you a complete day to realise

I was missing.

Mother Shame!

Why did you even have me

If you did not care?


While you are reading my letter

Let me share another secret.

One that I have omitted to mention before.


Grandpa told me

He had collected money for me

So I can go to college.

I had to promise

I would work hard

And not turn out like you.


He set an account and shared the details.

Said it was to be my inheritance along with the pouch of jewels

He kept in his long forgotten boots.


I am on a train heading out into my future.

I do pray

I leave behind all the memories

Of neglect and cruelty.

No You did not beat me

But you locked me up

While he and you made loud noises in your room.

When little I thought

He was thrashing you.

Later I knew better

When I peeped and saw.

Oh Mother how could you be

Like this to me?

How?

I was your only child!


So many memories I have in me

I worry they might burn holes

So I left.

Leaving behind

All that was ugly and wile.

Ps.

Despite it all

I love you Mom

Stay safe and warm.

I left my blankie for you.




Alpana Issar


I do believe we can get through this thing called life smoothly if we reach out to each other earnestly . There is enough for all if we share. An artist by profession and have been a teacher by vocation. Life has been beautiful with all the challenges thrown at us . We just grow stronger.

I am a painter, photographer and an outreach activist. Presently living in Vishakapatnam on the eastern coast of India. I am grateful for the way of life which has given me many fine opportunities to hone and develop my skills as a person with many interests. I have also been very fortunate to travel through India and abroad, learn about different cultures and learn a foreign language while living in Chile Published poetry in two Anthologies by Roopali Gaur Sircar &Anita Nahal.


Diverse voices -In all the spaces And Earth fire water wind .

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